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It applies to just about everything, from dating to sales. When it comes to getting a girl attracted to you, playing hard to get is one of the most valuable tools you can employ. It creates the vibe that you are the kind of guy that has some pretty high standards. Sometimes, a girl will play hard to get just to see how persistent you are. The more value you projectthe more interested a girl will be.
They usually want to get to the finish line as quickly as possible, whether it be sex or a relationship. This is a problem. A guy that lays his cards on the table too quickly, appears to have less value. A girl who gets a guy who she deems as having value, feels like she has increased her value as well.
Girls do this all the time. Think about how many guys are sending messages to an attractive girl on their Instagram, and how many then get shut down. One thing all guys should stop doing is idealizing relationships. Some of the healthiest relationships are the ones in which two people could easily sleep with other people, but actively choose not to. Playing hard to get, or preserving your value in a relationship is essential to keeping the spark alive.
There is nothing more attractive than someone who other people want. No one is saying to cheat.
However, preserving your identity, and making each other work to preserve the passion, is definitely smart. The best relationships are the ones where both people see the importance of keeping the other person happy and make an effort to do so. However, this is not how to project real value or confidence to a girl you like. Here are some small things you can adjust in your game:. Being too agreeable, or dropping everything to answer her texts is tempting, because everywhere else in life, being polite and nice usually gets you some positive benefit.
Sometimes you have to be your own person with your own plan and schedule, and let them in on it, rather than make them the entire focus of your life. A nice guy is boring. Plain and simple. A really beautiful woman has probably developed a very high level of confidence. Some girls even find it a little pathetic.
A really beautiful woman would rather a guy be hard to get. Essentially, no girl is going to hook up with a guy who she perceives as not being good enough for her. It sounds selfish, but men and women both look at dating in terms of resource extraction.
Compatibility certainly plays a role, but for the most part, decisions on who we date are made for selfish reasons. Utility, value, and rarity will always trump things like politeness and chivalry. The game goes both ways. A girl you might be after could be playing hard to get. Sometimes this is a test to see how interested you are, but be careful. If she sends two textsyou send one.
Regardless, when it comes to dating, always think of things in terms of value and rarity. Projecting these two qualities sets you up for success, and makes you seem much more like the alpha-male you are. Try this simple "copy paste" text message to get her intrigued, and thinking that she made a mistake. I'm cool being friend zoned by girls I want to date. Connect with us.
In their minds, it makes things feel more natural. You should always come from a place of confidence, and non-dependence.
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